Monday, February 8, 2016
We only fear rejection from those we subordinate to, minimise to or compare ourselves to and think we are inferior to. When we walk on the street and we meet somebody that we don’t think has as much social influence, or as much clout as we do, it won’t worry us if they don’t think highly of us. But the second we give power to their opinion over our own, we minimise ourselves to them, we think their opinion is greater than ours, that’s when the fear of rejection hurts. And that’s when we start sacrificing what we really want to do to try to please the people that we are enamoured with. We will lose our life trying to please people we think are above us or more powerful than us. Because when you devalue yourself, so does the world. When you value yourself, so does the world. You are only going to feel rejection if you minimise yourself to someone else. View my video in which I share valuable insights on how to do deal with rejection.
Posted by Avi Perez at 12:36 AM
Sunday, February 7, 2016
As a leader, it is wise to compose an inspired mission and vision statement that will awaken vitality, intensity and power in all those you serve. Your powerful mission statement will express your inner most dominant thoughts and deepest inspiration and it will originate from the very essence of your being. The degree of inspiration and enthusiasm that will permeate your service will be directly proportionate to the vividness of your vision and congruency of your mission.
Posted by Avi Perez at 1:59 PM
Friday, January 22, 2016
Everyone experiences moments where outer circumstances appear to be an overwhelming crisis. To many these circumstances dominate and rule their lives. To some these crises leave lasting scars unless they are recognized as truly being blessings. When the worst crisis becomes your greatest blessing, you heal. Nature does not deliver crisis without opportunity or misfortune without blessing. If you would like to help others learn from your experiences share on the wall some of the blessings that you have received from your previous crises
Posted by Avi Perez at 1:26 AM
Thursday, January 21, 2016
You have the power to live a bigger life. Challenge yourself. Take the risk! Become daring. There are things in your life that are no longer you and you know it in your heart. There is no law that says you have to carry the whole world on your shoulders. And the emptiness and lack of fulfillment inside is getting too much to bear.
It’s time to take care of you. Live your dream. Take off the cape. Do what you know and not what you feel. You deserve to live too! You have needs too! Give yourself a mental break and take time to get centered, grounded and reconnected with your spirit. Allowing your time to be wasted with people who are not serious is not fruitful and it’s stressful. Staying in a job where you are not appreciated or valued or validated is draining and toxic. Hanging on to a relationship that has been dead a long time ago takes a toll. Take a deep breath and tap into the courage to make the tough decision. Things might be difficult for a while, but don’t underestimate yourself.
You will survive. You always have! Life is on your side. You’re more powerful and stronger than you give yourself credit for being. No guts, no glory. You have one life to live, live the life you love and love the life you live. Family and friends may attempt to discourage you. Tell them thank you, I got that, and move on. At the end of the day, it’s your life. Keep in mind, it’s lonely at the top, but you eat better! You deserve to be happy. You deserve to make your life a daring adventure and to manifest the GREATNESS within you!
Posted by Avi Perez at 11:30 PM
Saturday, January 16, 2016
Every life has its ups and downs. Learn to be present to the seasons in your own life. If you are ill ~ remember that you are more than a physical body. Know that what can not be cured, can often be healed. If you are sad, take charge of your mind and focus on things that make you smile and laugh again. If you feel lonely, tap into your imagination to use your time to serve or learn something new . There are times in life when you will have more questions than answers. Even in the darkness of this time, know that you are not alone. Be still and listen to your heart, which will allow you to access a deep strength and genuine joy for life.
Allow yourself to hear your own still small voice; to believe in your truth; to find a place within of safety and peace; and to understand the depth and truth of your own feelings. Life is meant to be lived~ not endured or existing feeling totally stressed out. You have the power to create a life in which you are respected for who you are ~ valued, cherished and celebrated! Life is too short to allow other people to steal your joy. You have something special. You have GREATNESS within you
Posted by Avi Perez at 10:49 AM
Drop it like it's hot...all the doubt, worry, frustration, stress and anxiety that has been robbing you of your health or causing you to lose sleep at night. Decide to live your life looking forward...not backwards. Examine yourself and be brutally honest with you. If you have habits, behaviors, or choices that are taking you down the wrong path, or that don't represent the GREATNESS that is within you...face the truth.
Make the hard decision to release these from your life. Don't allow these choices or habits to rob you of your greatest life or dictate your future. Take back your power, deepen your resolve to win, and intensify the pursuit of what you want. Practice calming your mind, going within, and finding a place of peace within yourself. The mark of GREATNESS is upon you. Live from this place...because this is the truth of who you really are.
Posted by Avi Perez at 10:46 AM
Wednesday, January 13, 2016
Stay connected with people who inspire, nourish and bring out the best in you. It takes time to pull yourself together and to heal if you have been hurt, humiliated, or become emotionally broken because of what you have gone through. You can become disconnected with the real you and forget who you really are. It is necessary to read, listen and focus on positive things. Things that strengthen your mind, develop your confidence and fortify your spirit. Create a strategy that will allow you to rid your life of people whose only intention is to strip, destroy, or take you down.
Be aware that there are certain situations that are just not good for you. Make a conscious, deliberate effort to focus your mind exclusively on things that will build you up, give you hope and expand the possibilities in all dimensions of your life. You have the capacity and the ability to rebuild your life. What you have gone through can be used to develop another part of yourself. Stay connected with positive people with the knowledge that you will get through this. You have something special. You have GREATNESS within you!
Posted by Avi Perez at 10:46 PM