Dr John Demartini

Make a list of things you resent, things you've never loved, anything you think you made a mistake on, whatever you think you could've done “better.” Then go through those items and ask: How did it serve me? How did it serve others? Respond... to these two questions again & again, until you discover the benefits of these actions/events, see the balance, the order, and the gifts resulting from them in your life.